Came to coaching reluctantly and now having a life-changing experience
“I was getting by just fine and actually came to coaching reluctantly. Perhaps you can relate, as this is difficult to say out loud: ‘Who I am’ in the world is a person of confidence. But at the time, I didn’t feel worthy of coaching and didn’t feel like I was worth the investment. There, I said it.
This was an investment in me and I have always felt that I can do things on my own. And I always have. Plus, financially – there was a bathroom remodel that I really, really wanted, and we have a few horses and it would be nice to get a newer saddle, etc. Maybe you have similar voices that try to talk you out of focusing on yourself?
This life-changing coaching experience far surpasses my bathroom remodel or a newer saddle.
My experience with coaching has given me more confidence, particularly in the area of setting intention and direction for my life. The most powerful part is that I get to talk about ‘me’. How often do we do that? I wanted (needed, really) to genuinely, at my core, talk about who I am, how I’m wired, and what I want for my family and myself. Our coaching was like getting a graduate degree in myself!
Working with my strengths, crafting my professional elevator speech, and defining my life purpose statement with Michelle has allowed me to be very clear about how I want to lead and interact with the world and my lovely family. I now set intention for my week ahead and then I go get it. It might sound silly and quite simple, but as an example – I finished up a contract role a week ago. Within the first day I had two very strong leads. I have set my intention to receive an offer within two weeks. And I have outlined all the ways that will happen due to updating my LinkedIn profile, following up with my leads, etc.
Michelle has helped me drive for results that are best for my family and me. One example is that I recently interviewed with a large organization, and I am very clear that it is not a good fit for me. Michelle is helping me talk through this, hold it for a minute, and release it as not the right opportunity. She’s helping me get clearer about better aligning my next opportunity.
I chose Michelle by watching her live her own life on purpose. I stalked her for several months! I watched her character and who she is. I found then and find now, she is intentional about working at and bringing joy in to her life. As one of Michelle’s biggest fans, I am thrilled that I have chosen to work with an amazing coach, mentor, and friend!”
