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It's so easy to let clutter pile up. In fact, in the short-term,
it's probably easier to just let it build, rather than taking
the time and energy up front to do something about it. Did you
know that the number-one reason that clutter builds up is from
the inability to make a decision? That's right. A piece of mail
comes in that we don't know what to do with, so we set it aside
for later. We come back from a meeting with a folder full of notes
but don't have a good place to file it, so it sits. And then those
single pieces of mail and those single folders seem to somehow
multiply, until we've got ourselves
a bunch of clutter!
While
the easy way out might seem to be to let it pile up, clutter
needs to be dealt with right from the startbefore
it takes over. It's important to be in charge of clutter, rather
than it being in charge of us! Holding on to clutter is
like holding on to old baggage. Clutter is anything in our lives
that is not useful or that we don't love. An organized environment
where everything has a function or we love itnow
that is useful!
The
state of your environment will give you a clue about other areas
in your life, just like it does for that client I mentioned. Once
we can finally remove the clutter, we create space in our lives
to dream about what we want, to set those important goals and
begin working on them. What clutter actually does is stand in
our way of what we want. The bottom-line: Clutter is an obstacle
to our dreams.
If
tackling clutter is a priority in your life, respect it enough
to set aside time to deal with it. There's that old saying that
"nothing changes until something changes." Schedule
small blocks of time to begin the process. When a goal is too
big and overwhelming, it can be literally paralyzing, and so we
throw in the towel too early and say "Forget it!" So
make the blocks of time manageable, do-able, and realistic. Maybe
that means 20 minutes every day for the next three weeks. That
adds up to five hours! And that even includes giving yourself
the weekends off. A lot can be done in five hours.
Pick
one space, whether that is an office, a closet, or even something
as small as a desk drawer. Then make three piles: 1) "Keep",
2) "Toss", and 3) "Sell/giveaway/donate".
And only focus on that one task.
Moving
forward, remember that whatever clutter you might have in your
life didn't build up overnight, so it will take some time to deal
with it all once you decide to roll up your sleeves and dig-in.
You may want to try using this acronym: "F.A.D." When
a new piece of mail or information comes in, "File it,"
"Act on it," or "Discard it."
As
you journey through the process of tackling the clutter, check
in with yourself on why you've felt the need to hang on to so
many things. There's a positive intention behind every behavior,
so if you've held on to clutter, you've done it because there
is something that you've inherently gained from it. What is it?
Comfort? Security? A need to control? A fear of it disappearing?
Find out what's at the root of all the clutter
and even more
importantly, what lies ahead for you once it is cleared.
Sign-up now for an Ultimate
Living Jump-Start to: 1) Understand what's behind the clutter,
and 2) Devise a system to tackle it once and for all!
Michelle
Stimpson is a Personal Success Coach who works with her clients
to be their best and create outstanding lives
and close the
gap between where they are now and where they want to be.
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